Showing posts with label Heroes of the Faith at Providence. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Heroes of the Faith at Providence. Show all posts

Sunday, November 1, 2009

Never Recant - Always Reforming


A great hero of the faith (who is still living - Mark Kettler) wrote me this week in the comment section of this blog concerning the great privilege we have of celebrating the time of the Reformation. Below are the comments from his post - read them and may we be forever finding ourselves "reforming" our lives over and over again in accordance with the Holy Scriptures - may we never "recant" from rejoicing, standing in, preaching, loving and living God's precious word!


"October 31, 1517 Martin Luther nailed his Ninety-Five Theses on the door of the Wittenberg Church. He later faced a tribunal, excommunication and potential execution for his stance in favor of God's Word and against the Roman Catholic Church. Here are his now famous closing words spoken before his accusers:"Your Imperial Majesty and Your Lordships demand a simple answer. Here it is, plain and unvarnished. Unless I am convicted [convinced] of error by the testimony of Scripture or (since I put no trust in the unsupported authority of Pope or councils, since it is plain that they have often erred and often contradicted themselves) by manifest reasoning, I stand convicted [convinced] by the Scriptures to which I have appealed, and my conscience is taken captive by God's word, I cannot and will not recant anything, for to act against our conscience is neither safe for us, nor open to us. On this I take my stand. I can do no other. God help me. Amen."

Friday, September 26, 2008

Biblical Counseling - Some Clarifications

Below are very helpful published responses to Dr. Powlison's articles "Sane Faith." This is published in its entirety from "Boundless.org." (And for more on this particular topic of how to view physiological factors our problems read Dr. Ed Welch's book, "Blame It On The Brain?" - here he gives a very helpful, charitable, humble and biblical look at how physiological factors are to be viewed when dealing with matters of our hearts.


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Biblical Counseling, a Clarification
by David Powlison

Dr. David Powlison — author of the “Sane Faith” series on Boundless (part 1, part 2 and part 3)
— appreciates the comments you’ve written on a blog post I wrote yesterday. This morning he sent me an e-mail responding to some of them. Among other things, he writes that “faith actually changes how you perceive [someone] and respond to [them].” Later he adds, “How you’re relating to God and how you’re relating to [others] are not controlled by your body, but by your heart.”

I find his clarifications helpful as I wrestle with the principles laid out in “Sane Faith.”

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[now from Dr. Powlison...]

I so appreciate the honesty of blog responders. Life is not easy street, but a hard road. Contrary to the glib self-confidence and easy answers that define our culture’s style, the Bible respects that our lives are fundamentally fragile, vulnerable to coming unglued. The psalms are the voice of honest strugglers, which is why Psalm 23 (and the anti-psalm) play such a key role in the lead article I wrote.

I want to make sure that the purpose of those articles is not lost. Ted Slater’s blog comments
are right in saying that these articles are not about medications at all. They are about affirming our humanness. They seek to shine a light on our common bond in the human struggles. We’re all in this together, and God comes to take us in hand. I’d hate to have the main point obscured by the discussion getting swallowed up in the medication issue. That is an important issue in its own right. Here are some thoughts to put in the mix in thinking about medications. But I hope that readers will also go back and ponder my original articles further.

About 10 years ago I watched a PBS special on the state of psychiatry in America. The head
of the National Institutes for Mental Health (NIMH) was interviewed. He can fairly be called America’s “top psychiatrist.” He sits at the top of the pyramid that funds medication research, sets standards for care, and so forth. He knows his field. His comments were insightful and fascinating. He said that society has given psychiatrists an impossible job. They are charged with trying to help people solve all their woes and struggles. Then he said that psychiatric medications can sometimes take the edge off symptoms, but they can’t give people what they really need. People need meaning and relationships. Psychiatry can’t give that. Medication can’t give
that.

You might want to reread that last paragraph. It contains a philosophy of medication that is sane and realistic, as well as knowledgeable. It’s so different from what our culture tells us. This psychiatrist was also seeing something about people that I believe can only be truly addressed by Christian faith. People need to find personal meaning and meaningful relationships. My articles are about what people really need. I fully agree with the head of NIMH that medications can “sometimes take the edge off symptoms.” He credits medication with possibly doing some modest good, not all the time, but sometimes. Modest good does not mean no good, or all bad, or useless. Nor does it mean the best good. People most need meaning and relationships. And “sometimes” does not mean always, or without the possibility of negative side effects. It means what it says, sometimes.

Most people who’ve tried medications would say that their experience mirrors what the head
of the NIMH said. He knows the literature. He knows people. He knows that people might be helped a bit, but that they need more help and deeper help. In my 30 years of counseling, I’ve seen the same thing countless times. I’ve also seen that when people find more help and deeper help they often drop the meds and don’t go back. They don’t need the symptomatic relief, because they’ve found more significant change. (That’s not always, but in my counseling experience it’s more often than not.)

More help and deeper help is what my articles are about.

Here’s an analogy you might find helpful. Let’s say you go to visit your mother for lunch. The relationship can be a bit strained. She can be “difficult.” When you are with her, and things take a wrong turn, you get tense. You feel a bit edgy, anxious, and irritable. You can get sarcastic. Later you might vent to your friends, “She’s impossible!” Let’s say you’ve also learned that your relationship with God makes a huge difference. You love this promise and response: He himself has said, “I will never leave you or forsake you.” So we can confidently say, “The Lord is my helper. I will not fear. What can man do to me?” (Hebrews 13:5-6) When you remember that, live it, take it to heart, you’re calmer. You don’t take your mom so personally. You’re more constructive. You’re able to forgive her. You pray for her rather than vent negative gossip. You’re able to get on with the rest of your day in a positive frame of mind. You say to your friends, “I’ve got to say, it’s hard to relate to my mom. But I’m very thankful to God for helping me not to return evil for evil.” That passage of Scripture speaks sweet promises to you, in God’s own voice: He himself says it! It also portrays how your faith comes to life: I can confidently say. Your thinking changes. What you say changes. How you feel changes. It doesn’t mean your mom changes. But your faith actually changes how you perceive her and respond to her.

Now here’s where our little analogy get interesting. Let’s also say that when you drink three
cups of coffee on an empty stomach and don’t eat a good breakfast, you go into your day feeling tense. You get a bit edgy, anxious, and irritable. (Sound familiar?) Eating a good breakfast and laying off the caffeine makes you feel better. Similarly you find that healthy exercise and a good nights sleep also make you feel better, less prone to that tense frame of mind.

Here’s the million dollar question. Will eating a healthy breakfast, taking a brisk walk and being well rested make your relationship with your mother tension-free and happy? No, it won’t. It might help you go into that lunch visit a bit less keyed up. It might help you not cancel because you can’t face her. Maybe you won’t be quite so reactive. But your relationship with your mother is a matter of “meaning and relationships.” How you’re relating to God and how you’re relating to her are not controlled by your body, but by your heart. Jesus puts all this in His usual pithy way. “Man does not live by bread alone, but by every word that proceeds from the mouth of God.” Bread means bodily sustenance: breakfast, exercise, sleep. But bread alone can’t bring energy and light, hope and love, to the meaning of your life and to your relationships. Whenever we make the connection, life makes much more sense. It’s a connection to make every day, like eating a healthy breakfast. The same sort of thing is true with medications. When they help, they tweak your body to feel and function better. But they can’t touch your need for the things that Hebrew 13:5-6 touches. Perhaps this paraphrase catches the right sense of proportion: “Man does not live by meds alone, but by every word that comes from the mouth of God.”

Our society attaches such inordinate hopes to medication. Pharmaceutical advertising makes such grandiose promises (not just about psychoactive drugs, but about many classes of meds). We want to say, things that help your body are good: healthy diet, exercise, and sleep, always; medications, sometimes. But they aren’t the best. See these things for what they are and aren’t, and you’ll keep your life struggles in proper perspective. The human touch that the articles seek to elicit and portray is always the most important. Those articles are about the YOU on the inside of who you are. They are about the YOU in your relationships.

I’d encourage readers to go back and read the lead articles again. As Ted Slater mentioned,
Boundless and I have been working on this project for a year. In a culture of online information, people are not used to reading something more than once. But anything worth thinking about carefully is worth reading a second time. Print it out. Take it slowly. Underline. Write in the margins. Ponder what it means. Take it to heart. I’d describe medication questions as a riff off from those articles — an important question in its own right, but a sidelight, even a distraction. You’ve probably seen how easily that happens in blogs. A riff carries the discussion far afield from the original topic. I hope that what really sticks in your mind is Psalm 23. Verse 4 brings a true perspective on all our woes, including a body that gets out of sync and mothers who can sometimes be difficult.
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P.S. Here are some further thoughts, and something for further study for those so minded.
Joseph Glenmullen, a research psychiatrist at Harvard, summarized hundreds of studies on
the effects of psychiatric medications for anxiety and depression (Prozac Backlash, Simon &
Schuster, 2000). He takes a balanced view, similar to the director of NIMH. He simply gives
the research data. Research shows that most of the positive effect comes from placebo effect,
not psychoactive ingredients. Perhaps two-thirds of those who take medications feel better
because they expect the medication to make them feel better. In other words, even with a
pill, the issue of one’s faith plays a significant part. How can you know whether you’re getting a psychoactive bump in mood or a placebo bump? You can’t. That’s part of why paying primary attention to meaning and relationships puts medications in their proper place as second-tier items. A person getting a placebo bump will continue to feel better when off medications because the meaning and relationships in his or her life improve. Glenmullen also gives details on the negative side effects that frequently arise and the frequency of drug ineffectiveness. People in these categories need not despair. Fruitful dealing with meaning and relationship issues always makes a difference in a person’s life, even if they must live with lifelong tendencies towards depression and anxiety — which many wise and godly people in history have done. Even if there’s no medication to make the tense-and-anxious reaction in your body go away, if the tense-and-anxious reactions in your relationships improve, then your life improves.

Saturday, July 26, 2008

Stand & Wonder At The Reality Of Being Called A Son!

Mr. Kettler - a very, very dear brother and small group leader here in our church sent this to me and what a great encouragement it was to my soul! Thank you sir, for always directing me to "stand and wonder" at the Cross of Christ! There are too many times I "stand and wonder" at the wrong things where there is no hope! Thank you for directing me to see through the grace of God, how my Father sees me in The Son. You are a dear friend my brother and this piece really ministered to my heart! I will take this with me on vacation as a daily exhortation of how good our Savior is! Thank you, thank you, thank you!

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Oh stand and wonder!
(Thomas Brooks, "The Crown and Glory of Christianity")

"Behold what manner of love the Father has bestowed upon us—that we should be called the sons of God." 1 John 3:1

It is an infinite condescension in God, to honor us with the title of sons, and therefore we should never think of it, nor ever speak of it—but with much admiration. O sirs! what matter of admiration is this—that the great and glorious God, who has many millions of glorious angels attending Him—that He should . . .

  • look upon all holy people as His sons,
  • and love them as His sons,
  • and delight in them as His sons,
  • and clothe them as His sons,
  • and feed them as His sons,
  • and protect them as His sons,
  • and stand by them as His sons,
  • and lay up for them as His sons,
  • and lay out Himself for them as His sons; that those who have not deserved . . .
  • a smile from God,
  • a good word from God,
  • a bit of bread from God,
  • or a good look from God,
  • should be made the sons of God!

What manner of love is this—that those who have . . .

  • so highly provoked God,
  • walked so cross and contrary to God,
  • were so exceeding unlike God,
  • preferred every lust, and every toy and vanity before God,
  • fought many years under Satan's banner against God,
  • refused all the offers of mercy that have been made by God, —that those who have deserved to be reprobated by God, damned by God, and to be thrown to hell by God—that these should be made the sons of God!

Oh stand and wonder! Oh stand and admire the freeness of His grace, and at the riches of His grace!

Wednesday, March 26, 2008

Providence - MP3s Available

Due to the faithful service of folks like Andre Darrigrand - we now have our sermons on-line on our church's web page. Just click on "Resources For Growth" and then click on "Audio Sermons - MP3s." Thank you so very much Mr. D...I think...wait a minute that means more people will hear my sorry attempts at preaching...on that note...I think you folks would be really blessed by a sermon given by Derek entitled "Speak Evil Of No One." Enjoy.

Wednesday, November 7, 2007

Heroes Of The Faith @ Providence - Ron Goodman


Today I am starting a new series of blogs that will be coming up from time to time, called, "Heroes of the Faith @ Providence." Romans 13:7 says, "Pay to all what is owed to them...respect to whom respect is owed, honor to whom honor is owed." And this last week, one great hero among us has served us so very, very well helping to mobilize us into areas of ministry to the poor and the needy - This hero would be Mr. Ron Goodman! Ron for the last couple of years has served the church so faithfully in organizing "Mercy ministry" to Prison Fellowship and then this year to Samaritan's Purse through Operation Christmas Child. As I have had the opportunity to walk with Ron, I see his heart, as I know many of you do as well, for those less fortunate. Ron, thank you so very, very much for how you have served us through the many hours of organization, attention to detail and your heart to serve. Last Saturday night was a wonderful time! Thank you for your sacrifice, your labors of love and your example! One day, I trust and know there will be many you will meet around the throne of Our Savior, that came to know Him through your obedient work, care and love for Christ. Thank you Ron for your example!
Likewise, folks if you would like to add your comments of thanks and appreciation to Ron, please feel free to do so in the comments section. Also, Ron is organizing a "work day" at the Operation Christmas Child distribution place in a couple of weeks, so be sure to contact him if you would like to serve that way. Thanks!